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Just Life
one big story to finish the year

The relationship between personality and happiness.
What if there were a “psychological X-ray” of attitudes that can increase or decrease your chances of being a satisfied (happy) person in life? A study has just found certain very strong patterns related to the way people view life and their level of happiness. As this is the last newsletter of the year, and many of you are setting goals for the coming year, I thought it might be useful to reflect a little on how we want to behave in 2026.
If “thinking good thoughts” seems silly to you, know that the article was published in 2024 in the scientific journal Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (volume 126, number 4, pages 676–693).
The study analyzed 22,000 people from three different countries for at least 10 years. All data was cross-referenced with both self-assessment reports and reports from informants (other people who know the participant) — which increases the reliability of the results.
The goal was to investigate how much a person's life satisfaction matches their personality traits, considering multiple measurement methods and avoiding common research errors.
Basically, scientists asked thousands of people how they felt about life and then asked how they behaved and thought on a daily basis.
The Discovery
Most people have levels of life satisfaction that match their personality very well. In other words, who you are greatly influences how happy you feel — and this remains stable for many years. In other words: Happier people have similar ways of thinking and acting — and so do sad people.

In any case, we at Tanamesa will make your life easier by breaking down the behaviors or thoughts that can make you happier:
Believing that you can improve if you try. “If I study, practice, and work hard, I'll succeed!”
Trying again even when you make a mistake. “It's okay if it didn't work out this time, I'll try again!”
Enjoying learning new things. “Wow, I never knew that! How cool!”
Working as a team and helping others. “Let's do it together! You do this and I'll do that.”
Being kind and apologizing when you do something wrong. “I'm sorry about that. I didn't mean to hurt you.”
Trusting and surrounding yourself with good people. “I'm better when I'm with good people.”
Having the courage to take risks. “I'll try, even if I'm nervous.”
Things that make people sadder
Feeling that no one understands you. “No one listens to me...”
Never feeling like doing anything. “Nothing excites me...”
Getting angry when others win. “Why wasn't it me?”
Letting others treat you badly without saying anything. “It's okay... never mind.”
Lying or breaking promises. “I said I would go, but I didn't...”
Being alone all the time, even though you want company. “I'm not going today, I'm too tired.”
Ultimately, happiness is not a lottery, a matter of chance, or an achievement reserved for the lucky few. It has more to do with how you see the world, treat people, and deal with yourself—every day.
Of course, not all thoughts are controllable, and emotions can take over without warning, but the study reveals an important key: even without controlling all feelings, the way you choose to act on them still matters.
“Ah, but there must be studies that contradict this...”
Well... We asked ourselves the same question. In a brief analysis with AI, we asked if there were any studies that contradicted this and what their conclusions were. The answer was as follows:
"The studies that contradict this do not say that the relationship between personality and life satisfaction does not exist—almost every study agree that it does. However, they point out that: it may not be as strong in all cases; there is a lot of individual variation, and some personality traits have a greater impact than others."
Like it or not, what you call science has shown that there is, in fact, a pattern in the behavior of people who are more satisfied with life. It may be useful throughout the week, and perhaps in the next upcoming year, to experiment with this correlation, as people who tend to be more optimistic, resilient, and sociable report higher levels of happiness.
Try taking risks, trying harder, trying again, apologizing more quickly, being kind, and trusting others more—all those basic things that people with almost no flaws, like our Editor-in-chief Micael, do.
(Just kidding... but if you've read this far, congratulations!)
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EDITOR’S RECOMMENDATIONS
Music
thought I would never go back, but just this once

Deadbeat by Tame Impala: Me and Tame Impala have been a slow burn for over two years now. I don’t naturally gravitate toward alternative or psychedelic sounds in my day-to-day listening, but every once in a while, one or two songs would catch my attention — and with each one, my curiosity grew a little more.
My real entry point was discovering that Kevin Parker co-produced and co-wrote much of Dua Lipa’s Radical Optimism. That connection stayed in the back of my mind. And then, recently, while scrolling through a list of the best songs released this year, I found “End of the Summer” sitting comfortably in the top 20. It quickly became my December soundtrack — constantly playing between my LUX listens — and that’s when Deadbeat finally pulled me in.
To be honest, I had to do some homework for this review. And that’s one of the things I love most about writing this newsletter: it pushes me to learn, to dig, to meet artists where they are. Compared to the few tracks I knew from his earlier work, Deadbeat feels noticeably more stripped-back and minimal — a contrast to the dense, multi-layered maximalism Parker is known for.
Reactions to the album have been mixed. Many longtime fans say the songs “meet the mark” but never quite soar the way his past work did. And I get that. But maybe because I’m arriving without nostalgia or expectation — just dipping my toes in — I really enjoyed it. Deadbeat made me curious. It made me want to listen to more. And sometimes, that’s the most honest compliment you can give an album.
Fans argue it’s one of Tame Impala’s least expansive records — still better than most pop releases, but a letdown by his own standards. Maybe. But I think we can give him a little credit. Not every album needs to reinvent the wheel; some are simply about refining a feeling.
There’s also a strong Michael Jackson–coded energy throughout the album, especially in its rhythmic instincts. Parker has said Deadbeat was influenced by Western Australia’s “bush doof” rave scene, which explains the constant pulse of four-on-the-floor beats. Tracks like “Ethereal Connection” lean fully into that — heavy, driving, immersive. You can feel his affinity for dance music in the writhing bass lines and the subtle, shifting electronic textures.
I loved the production on “Obsolete” but the closing track, “End of the Summer” is where everything clicked for me. It hits that enviable sweet spot between dancefloor euphoria and rain-soaked melancholy — until Parker introduces a slightly abrasive, sped-up vocal hook. Somehow, it works. And it stayed with me long after the flight landed.
Deadbeat might not be a revelation for die-hard fans. But for someone like me — arriving slowly, openly, without expectations — it felt like an invitation. One I’m very happy to accept. (Rating 7.5/10)
Best songs: End of Summer; Etherial Connection; Afterthought; My Old Ways; Obsolete
WHAT ABOUT ME?
Micael
it’s THAT time of the year
Hi friend,
I can’t believe another year is basically over. And yet, strangely, this one doesn’t feel like it flew by. Maybe it’s politics, maybe the economy, maybe the general state of the world — but it feels like, at some point this year, everyone lost their mind a little. Or maybe that’s just my impression. Either way, the year went on. As it always does.
What remains are the traces: what happened, the people we met, the trips we took, the relationships we built — and the ones we didn’t.
There’s this belief, in numerology and astrology circles, that 2026 marks a major reset — the beginning of a new nine-year cycle, a year of rebirth, leadership, and fresh starts after a period of closure. Believe it or not, that resonates deeply with me. 2025 felt like a year of planting seeds. A year of construction. Of laying foundations without always knowing what they would become. So yes, today I’m a believer in numerology. Who doesn’t want to believe in the idea of a fresh start?
More than anything, this year taught me faith. The older I get, the more I find myself trusting the universe — trusting that things unfold the way they should, and that no good deed goes unnoticed. 2025 wasn’t an easy year for me, but that doesn’t mean it wasn’t a good one. I grew. I achieved things I had been hoping for. It was an early grower — it started rough, slowly softened, and somehow ended on an amazingly high note: closing a beautiful chapter in fever, an unforgettable trip to Brazil, a new job, and now spending the holidays visiting one of my best friends in London. Not bad for a “hard” year.
Interestingly, many friends told me 2025 was an amazing year for them. And I loved hearing that. It reminded me that time doesn’t move the same way for everyone — thank goodness.
I don’t know yet if I’ll make a formal list of goals for the year ahead. But I do know this: I’ll keep doing my best, like we always do. And life, somehow, will keep meeting us halfway — like it always does.
I also want to say: Merry Christmas. I hope you had a beautiful night yesterday. Mine was special — it was the first Christmas in three years that I didn’t spend alone, and that meant more than I expected. Today, I’m celebrating with one of the most important people in my life — a friend I wrote about exactly one year ago when he received an offer to move to London. And now, here we are, celebrating the holidays together at his new home.
Life really is wonderful sometimes.
Happy New Year.
With love,
M.

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